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wait till you read THIS update - shocked
| Tue, 09-14-2004 - 2:58pm |
I am in absolute shock now. I just went online to my ex's profile, which has been lying dorment for over a year, only to find that he put a new picture of himself on there (a shirtless picture, one obviously meant for advertising himself to girls) back on July 20, 2004, WHILE WE WERE STILL TOGETHER!!! WE DIDN"T BREAK UP TILL LATE AUGUST!!! I am so in shock and angry and hurt, I feel like I was starting to feel a little better, now this brings me back to square one. I want to call him so bad just to let him know that I am not stupid and I know what he did to me. And he had the balls to tell me when we broke up that he always did and always will have the utmost respect for me? How is that respect? Advertising your shirtless picture and the fact that you just got a new car and putting "single" as your marital status while your still with someone? I am so upset right now I don't know what to do!

I know you're hurt. Finding out things after the fact is always hurtful. But I hope that you use this to move on....on to bigger and better things for you!!!
Good luck chica...things are gonna start to look brighter for you, I promise.
Karen
And....alot of those "firsts" hurt. I think that if you confront him, it will take you to his level. There is no point in it.
The sad thing is that we have to admit to ourselves that we are no longer a part of their lives. (Unless, we have children, then we are bound together as long as the children are living, to them.)
I say not to say anything. Pride in oneself does count for something.
Just remember, that he may have been into more than you know. If you discuss with him, it could bring those things up, thus hurting you more or make you feel worse than you do.
Have faith....the only thing that heals is time. It seems to drag at first, but take everything one day at a time.
Wishing you happiness.