wants to meet for lunch, what to do?
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| Mon, 04-30-2007 - 9:19am |
my ex- texted me late last night asking to go to lunch today.
do i respond? i am curious about what he is going to say, bc i know he is seeing the other girl. but i am concerned that meeting him will not make me feel better, but worse, or at least make my wound hurt and breaking my no contact of 8 days. i've relapsed several times since we broke up last month.
also, could it be a case of having his cake and eating it too? i am not ready to be friends with someone who betrayed my trust and lied to me. but i do want to know if he has something to say instead of just trying to talk to me about banalities and trivial lil things that don't mean anything- because i sense it makes him feel better about the situation, overriding his guilt.
any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I would text back, "No thanks,"
thanks everyone for the advice!
i'm not going to even respond to him. period. it's not going to go anywhere if he is still acting immature and confused with me and has another love interest.
continuing No Contact!!!
P.S. he wrote me an email asking for a raincheck bc he has to train someone new in his dept. i'm not responding to that one either and deleting it! :)
hi lindseyloo! thank you for the encouragement! it's motivating to know that i can be an example for others recovering too!
how have you been? how was your weekend?
i just wanted to let everyone know that he did contact me again via email at work today- asking to give me ride to the airport and a place to park my car for my trip to FL this weekend.
i refused and let him know that "i made other arrangements, thanks."
his response was "very well. have a good trip, take care."
i can't really read into a one line response, but i hope he is angry, annoyed and guilty for being shut down because he is trying to be nice out of guilt and pity.... i'm going to continue to reject his niceities because that's what they are. even if i do want to know if he misses me, i know it's not for any healthy happy reason that would be good for me!
he's moved on and so am i!!!!