was I too Harsh?
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was I too Harsh?
| Sat, 04-07-2007 - 8:05am |
Hello, I'll make this short. I was dating this guy, long distance, he works tons of hours, AND he has a side business that keeps him very busy. after awhile, I meant to be understanding but all i did was complain and acted pissy... I hated the way it was so this past week, I told him that we should end things for now. I told him he couldn't give me one thing I wanted, his time...He agreed but wanted me to think about it.. so we were done. But he kept texting & calling me telling me he wants me and how he misses me etc. I got weak... He wanted to come over and I invited him over and we were talking and how he kept telling me he just wants me and how he's going to sell one of the houses and he'll have a lot more time to be with me etc.. I told him that we coudln't have sex b/c that will only make me feel bad b/c this is not as if we are getting back together... but then I couldn't help it and we are in bed and suddenly, out of no where.... he stops... Bc i've been so stressed, I have a cyst that popped up which I get occasionally when I get stressed out... He asks me what happened to me and I told him why and he just tells me how he doesnt' want to stress out and he wants me to be happy etc.... Then he left b/c he had a really long day ahead of him. There I am sitting extremely rejected and he wants to go home b/c he feels guilty... I was so mad that i told him we are over. He tells me he's going to call me and walks out of the house knowing how upset I am. In anger i wrote to him that tonight was a big mistake and i dont' want him to call me anymore and I don't want to talk or see him anymore. He writes back that that's mean... I told him so is walking out on me while I"m upset.. 15 minutes of sleep could've waited. And it's not like it was at 3AM.. it was like 11PM. Then he says he's sorry and that he's felt sick and he's extremely tired.... so I told him fine. sleep well and feel better but just so he knows, I am worth the 15 minutes. then i wrote again that I mean what I said.. good luck and good bye. And there we have it. I don't know if I regret it. Is that way too harsh for me to say? I still want things to work out but I am just so angry with what happened... and I feel he will never call me again... and I mean, who would??? Please give me some advice to get past this....

Hi sekup,
Sorry I missed your post earlier.