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we broke up yesterday
| Wed, 03-30-2005 - 5:58am |
Hello
i am writing because i broke up with my girlfriend yesterad night. I had so much of her and told her she was a liar . She says that she could not handle but at the end there was not anything left of our relationship
I feel used because i never knew what was going on when she was in an emergency situation. Only her ex-boyfriend knows everything and more. She is very quite about these things but i have she was unloyal. She preferred him to me.
very hurted and maybe so early to make a good analysis of things.
I am so tired, i could barely sleep last night. i am so dissapointed, so sad...
i am writing because i broke up with my girlfriend yesterad night. I had so much of her and told her she was a liar . She says that she could not handle but at the end there was not anything left of our relationship
I feel used because i never knew what was going on when she was in an emergency situation. Only her ex-boyfriend knows everything and more. She is very quite about these things but i have she was unloyal. She preferred him to me.
very hurted and maybe so early to make a good analysis of things.
I am so tired, i could barely sleep last night. i am so dissapointed, so sad...

Somehow, being the "dumper" instead of the "dumpee" is supposed to be easier. I haven't found that in my situation though (I broke up with my ex 3 days ago). I feel your pain.
Be strong. Keep reaching out. Oh, and at some point, I know I'm going to have to take the advice of others, and actually write down why I did it... I tend to be forgetting my motives for leaving him; you may want to do this too. Also, try not to let it monopolize your thought life today. Someone else here suggested limiting yourself to certain times during the day to think on the break-up. I have a certain chair in a certain place at home that I've designated for this each night, so that when I'm at work, I don't have to think on it (as much, anyway), knowing that the time to do so will be later tonight.
I'm sorry it hurts. Maybe it's b/c I just watched "I (Heart) Huckabees," but there is something to say for just allowing yourself to feel the pain. (Or getting a big pink ball! haha ...you'd have to see the movie to appreciate this, though.)
Someday, I'll rebuild myself, and I have faith that you will too.
I have so little advice, but much sympathy for you.