Is this weird???
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Is this weird???
| Wed, 08-15-2007 - 10:17pm |
Well, here's the story. My exe and I broke up back in March, so its been awhile. Since then, I did a period of no contact for three monthes and slowly started allowing him back in my life. I felt like the feelings weren't there for me anymore and I still believe that. We slowly started becoming best friends again. Well he started dating a girl 3 weeks ago, but if I were her, I would be slightly freaked out. He still calls me all the time. We still talk online for hours. When he was having a problem with this girl stalker he had while he was dating the girl he was with now, he called me when the girl stalker freaked out on him... not the girl he is dating now. He tells me everything first then the girl he's dating. I feel like he turns to me for stuff that he won't even mention to her. Is this odd behavior? I don't really care because Im just dating around right now, but Im worried about this attachment he has to me. He keeps saying stuff like "Im so glad you are in my life" and brings up the things from our relationship like how awesome we were together. I don't want him to be dependent on me. He is in another relationship. He should be depending on her for support. I am his best friend and I will continue to be his friend... but i guess my question is... where does the line get drawn? I don't want to interfere or make her feel insecure. I am dating other people and having a blast. Yeah I loved him at one point in time, but I miss him as a friend... nothing more. He lives in St. Louis and I never will see him again. Any suggestions? I am almost tempted to cut contact so this girl has a chance.

Hi Lindseyloo3035,
He does sound a little too dependent on you.... I think you are right to worry about it.