What am I thinking!!!
Find a Conversation
| Sat, 04-01-2006 - 3:10am |
Here's my deal-I had almost no contact with my ex for 1 week, he called 2 tines daily to speak to the kids (new for him!). I was so proud of myself..then he text'd me that he missed me. OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH-we started talking again..What an idiot!!
Now he turns all these things around on me and finally tells me the truth about all the other women. How this last one and him were in a relationship! No duh-she was e-mailing him on our computer telling him that she loved him! But actually hearing the truth stings...anyways he tells me that she is a born again virgin and she's really pretty, but I ruined it all for them by acting insane and telling her like it is...But I am ranting like I am insane!!!!!!!
He tells me that he was going to "just see where they went as a couple" and let things cool with me...But this was all news to me. The day I found the email he and I had just spent the day in bed professing our love....
And now I feel rejected all over again. AND I feel like an idiot! Am I crazy? Was I right to email her? He tells me that it was my fault she left not his...I drove her away with my nonsense, not that he was cheating on both of us and telling the both of us that he loved us.... I realize that I am ranting and raving but I feel like total crap.
I hate how he has made me feel. I hate how he has twisted this whole thing to be all my problem.........How do I have no contact with the father of my children?

jelleelle...
PG knows several men who will throw words in a woman's face....simply because...THEY KNOW THEY'LL GET A REACTION! That's what the EX is doing to you.
The simplest way to avoid messages is to IGNORE the texts and emails...and keep the phone conversations down to 2 minutes. This way, he's not going to have the satisfaction of "confessing his sins" to a woman who really isn't interested. If his conversation involves the children...give him 30 seconds to state his case and provide a solution. After this, tell him YOU HAVE TO END THE CONVERSATION!
If he keeps going....remind him that there are PRIESTS AND PSYCHIATRISTS who will be happy to give him plenty of their time to digest your EX's life story...in exchange for a hourly fee!
Pianoguy