What are the chances?

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Registered: 04-03-2006
What are the chances?
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Tue, 04-04-2006 - 5:22pm

....that he will ever call me again? He pretty much told me that he thought he was falling in love with me but figured out that he wasn't and that he no longer wanted to see me. You know the story! So WHY in the heck would I want him to call me to AT LEAST say that he was sorry???? I feel like such a h.s. girl right now. Although I'm very modest, I will say that I do have a lot going for me. I have a great job, great kids, attractive and yet, I still want to be with loser!!! Well, that's just it. He really wasn't a loser up until he dropped a bomb on me out of no where and I really do think that I miss more of what we did and had as opposed to missing "him". '

SO WHY DO I WANT HIM TO CALL????

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Registered: 03-24-2006
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 5:31pm

Why do you want him to call? For the same reason I do. We miss the attention. I guess when we're in love, the attention from that particular man is like no other. I keep thinking about dating someone else just to get my mind off of him and others have pursued me, but I keep telling myself, "it won't be him...it won't be the same."

I'm with you. I know how you feel. But be strong and don't call because it's going to hurt even more if he rejects you again. Trust me, I know.

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Registered: 01-31-2006
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 8:01pm

ACTUALLY THAT WHAT YOU CALL LOVE..."LOVE IS BLIND"...WE CANNOT SEE THE TRUTH. EVEN WE SEE IT...WE IGNORE IT!

RIGHT NOW ITS HARD. BUT LATER TRUST ME YOU WILL JUST LAUGH ABOUT IT! YOU BEEN WITH PAST RELATIONSHIP RIGHT SO I'M ASSUMING THAT YOU HANDLE THAT GOOD. SO THINK ABOUT YOUR PREVIEWS RELATIONSHIP. HOW DID YOU OVER COME THOSE PROBLEM? DAY BY DAY, STEP BY STEP AND ONEDAY HIS TOTALLY GONE TO YOUR MIND.

GOOD LUCK

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Registered: 03-27-2006
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 8:34pm
hang in there jazz, at some point you wont feel like calling anymore. And its always better to think he might come back. Im still trying to come to terms he's not. Dont call, trust me I did it and its not good when its not what you want to hear.
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Registered: 01-31-2006
Wed, 04-05-2006 - 4:40pm

hi lamago

sorry but you post to the wrong person....but thats okay. actually this is labmrscab post.




Edited 4/5/2006 4:42 pm ET by jazz_meeh