What are they doing for 4th of July?

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Registered: 04-08-2003
What are they doing for 4th of July?
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Sat, 07-01-2006 - 2:43pm
I know Im writing a billion posts today. I just have so many thoughts running through my head. I keep thinking of what is he doing this weekend? What will he be doing for forth of july? Will he be with some other girl. There are so many picnics/parties this weekend Im sure he will attend. He always use to stay home. He didnt go out much. His friends would have these blow out parties that he wouldnt go to. I know he will now be attending. Its too soon for me to find comfort in someone else's arms this 4th. I know for him its a different story. He is ready to move on. He just felt bad I guess of leaving me. He didnt want to be the one to break things off. So instead he choose to be mean and nasty in hope I would leave him which eventually I did. Its kills me to know this is a good time to meet someone else. he may find someone else this week or get some new girl's number. Oh why do I care so much! Why cant i just let it go! Do you think they are hurting as much as us? Do you think they can just that quickly jump into something with someone else?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 07-01-2006 - 3:38pm
Stop torturing yourself like this. Whenever I start to wonder if my ex has gone out on a date yet, I just stop myself because what's the point? Just don't indulge in those thoughts. They won't do anything but make you feel miserable. I know it's easier said than done, but try to replace those thoughts with happy thoughts: about the great guy you will find when you've healed for instance. Don't think about the ex with other women. It will just make you cry.