What to do....

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Registered: 03-16-2007
What to do....
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Fri, 03-16-2007 - 11:55am
I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years, yet I am only 20. I turn 21 in July. We live together and have for the past 2 1/2 years. Our relationship has been pretty good. We have never broken up (although I have thought about it many times). I've recently started having feelings for a guy that I work with and I know he has feelings for me. We have been friends for about a year...usually just talking at work but recently we started hanging out--going out to dinner, shopping, etc. I truly believe if this person wasn't going into the Marines in 2 months I would be with him right now. I do love my boyfriend very much, he is my best friend and has been by my side for the last 4 year. I told him of my feelings for this other guy last night. He said it was over and I begged him to stay--even though I dont know thats what I want (whats wrong with me????) I think I am scared to be alone. I want to try to make things work, but yet I dont want to give up a good friendship with the guy I work with. What should I do?
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: jamie2649
Fri, 03-16-2007 - 12:17pm

Hi Jamie and welcome to the board.


My best advise - Face Your Fear.