WHAT TO DO!!!!!
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WHAT TO DO!!!!!
| Sat, 06-30-2007 - 3:39am |
I was with my bf for about a yr and we broke up because he just graduated from college and i had jus strated and he would be moving away to get a new job. The thing is that we've been broken up for about 1 month and 1/2 but he started getting over me two weeks after we broke up.I asked him if he wanted to be with me and he told me he jus wanted to focus on his career and needed to figure some things out. We've been talking just about everyday. We txt mostly and call each other every other day. i love him and he syas he loves me but if he does love me then why doesn't he want to be with me? I tell him am hurtin so much but if i ask him wat he wants he says he doesn't kno. he also tells me he wants me close. Wat does that mean? wen he's the one pushing me away. I decided am just not gonna txt him. he txts me but i dun txt him bak. wat am i supposed to do cause i feel stuck in the middle. If I move on i'll regeret it if he wants to get back with me but i just don't wana sit around and wait and be hurt. he tells me that he misses me and cares about me and loves me but i jus don't undrestand why he wouldn't wana be with me and why he's pushing me away.He has told me that if i moved on he would be upset but would have to accept it. I treated him good thru out the relationship and we get along great. I just feel lost and confused can someone please help me?

Welcome to the board lannila,
I agree with the 60 days of no contact. He needs to know he's lost you.