what to do with his stuff?

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Registered: 04-11-2004
what to do with his stuff?
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Fri, 02-24-2006 - 10:52am
Hi, I am sad. My boyfriend left me on Monday night. He hasnt called or stopped by. We lived together for 4 years and he left with only the clothes on his back that night. EVERYTHING is still at my place. Shoes, clothes, books, magazines, pictures, toothbrush, razors. What do i do with it all? I want to get rid of it, but at the same time I dont want to make it that easy for him to leave me behind. It sucks it really does. I am dreading this weekend so much, since I dont have to work, i have no set plans and I am afraid I will be crushed and depressed all weekend long. Is there anyway to get through?
Any advice on what to do with his stuff?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 02-24-2006 - 11:01am

julesp78....

PG hates to break this to you....but you can't keep a man HOSTAGE! If your b/f walked out on you...and you know the incident on Monday won't reverse itself...ACCEPT IT!

Meanwhile...leave a message on his phone that all his personal belongings will be discarded from your apartment if HE DOESN'T RETRIEVE THEM WITHIN THE NEXT 7 DAYS! You can bet he'll show up to claim whatever he wants, but it might be wise to have another person present in the same room....just in case your b/f becomes physically, verbally, or emotionally abusive!

Pianoguy