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what to do with his stuff?
| Fri, 02-24-2006 - 10:52am |
Hi, I am sad. My boyfriend left me on Monday night. He hasnt called or stopped by. We lived together for 4 years and he left with only the clothes on his back that night. EVERYTHING is still at my place. Shoes, clothes, books, magazines, pictures, toothbrush, razors. What do i do with it all? I want to get rid of it, but at the same time I dont want to make it that easy for him to leave me behind. It sucks it really does. I am dreading this weekend so much, since I dont have to work, i have no set plans and I am afraid I will be crushed and depressed all weekend long. Is there anyway to get through?
Any advice on what to do with his stuff?
Any advice on what to do with his stuff?

julesp78....
PG hates to break this to you....but you can't keep a man HOSTAGE! If your b/f walked out on you...and you know the incident on Monday won't reverse itself...ACCEPT IT!
Meanwhile...leave a message on his phone that all his personal belongings will be discarded from your apartment if HE DOESN'T RETRIEVE THEM WITHIN THE NEXT 7 DAYS! You can bet he'll show up to claim whatever he wants, but it might be wise to have another person present in the same room....just in case your b/f becomes physically, verbally, or emotionally abusive!
Pianoguy