what do I do now

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2007
what do I do now
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Sun, 02-04-2007 - 12:00pm
I met the love of my life 15 years ago... For 10 years we avoided our relationship because of other commitments, kids, moves, etc. 5 years ago we got together and after a few rough years because of blended family and sick kids issues we settled into what I thought was a good relationship. 3 weeks ago I found out my dtr had to have surgery, the next day the dogs got out and he did not come home, the next day he came home stating he was broken and needed to figure out what to do. He needed a "break". A week later he returned and said it was over.. Now I have learned there is someone else and they are moving in together with my step son and dogs..... He has been hitting me out of the blue with tell me one thing and do another stuff...lies about stuff then I hear from others more stuff...He took my stepson and dogs while I was gone to tend to my sick kid...I am pacing my house...I am lost and I just do not know what to do next... does anyone have any suggestions?
I am going out with friends and I do have support but I am worried about burning them out..
I am having visitation today with my stepson and the ex is coming to pick him up and the dogs up (here for visit to say goodbye to my dtr). How do I deal with this and then tonight what do I do when we are all alone again.. This is so hard.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2003
Sun, 02-04-2007 - 2:24pm
Is counseling available to you? I highly recommend it. You need a place to vent your hurt and grief and deal with the fact that he betrayed you by hooking up with someone else. Sorry you have to go through this.


Carrie