what to do next

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Registered: 12-27-2007
what to do next
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Tue, 03-18-2008 - 6:59pm

hi all,


i won t take much of ur time.i ve dated my bf for about 2 yrs.our relationship went through ups and downs but we always tried to keep it going.after the new yr i decided that i wanted to talk to him about us getting serious.i was shcked that he was so against the idea saying that he is not ready and it will take a long time for him to even think about such a thing.anyways at that point i decided to go out and beak it up cus he was so serious about not wanting to settle down and have a familly.


we stopped talking for a while and i tried everything i could to keep my distance and i even went on a date with a really special person.2 wks later my bf or actually my ex at the time called me and i was stupid to answer him.he was asking about what i m doing.i told him that i m ok and i m seeing somebody.


since that day he started calling and coming to c me.he came many nights at 4 or 5 in the morning saying that he can t sleep thinking about us.he tried everything to get back and said that he sees together in the future.


because i love him i left the other person and i went back with him.i was talling him that i was so much in love with him and that s why i had to bring marriage and leave the other guy.not even a week after we got back together.he said he doesn t work on our realtionship anymore cus he lost interest and his feelings are gone.


i m going crazy.i can t believe after all i ve done and he did he just thrw me out of the window.he said that he could nt believe that i was up for a date right after i broke up with him.didn t take long to move on.he blamed for ruining everything eventhough i was the one to ask for marriage at first.


i couldn t take the fact that he broke up with me for no reason and never looked back to see that i have nt done anything.if he didn t want me why did he ruine my relationship with other person?how could say he loved me when he easilly said that feel it anymore in less than a wk.i want him so much i can t take this pain that is aching my heart.


i have n t slept in days. can t anybody

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 7:19pm

Welcome to the board marwalovesalways,


Sounds like he either 1) likes the chase or 2) wants only what he can't have (only came back after you started dating again).