What to do?! (UPDATE)

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Registered: 01-05-2004
What to do?! (UPDATE)
Sat, 12-23-2006 - 7:00pm
Just something to add since I've read some of your responses (thanks, by the way). What he said was an "ultimatum" was not what I intended at all. I just didnt want him to keep sending me mixed messages if all he wanted was to be alone and have his space right now. So if that's what he needs I still want to be there for him as a friend but not have him lead me on if he's not ready for "us" yet. So when I told him I was fed up, I meant with the mixed signals....and he took it as me giving him an ultimatum. Oops... So I took the advice of some of you and sent him a message telling him that I'm sorry, I wasn't giving him an ultimatum, I just had to know exactly where he stood and thats all. So hopefully that can be a stepping stone to us communicating again and we'll see what happens with time. Opinions still welcome...