What to do when he contacts you?
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What to do when he contacts you?
| Sat, 06-16-2007 - 9:48pm |
I've been broken up w/ my ex for about a month now. At break-up time, he told me that "he was not happy and that something was not right and something was missing". He also said he was not sure if he could ever commit to me or anyone. However, he has tried emailing me a couple of times in the past 2 weeks and left me an article.
So far, I have not responded to any of it b/c he cannont give me what I need--that is, a commitment of any sort. This is a big step for me b/c normally I would respond as soon as I would hear from him. I just don't get it. You either want to be with someone or you don't. I'm trying my best to get through this horrible pain--I terribly miss him. I just don't know what to do.

If you know that he can't give you what you need then you know what to do. The fact that you haven't answered his messages tells that you know what to do: move on to a more willing and emotionally availble guy. You're doing what you need to do: ignoring him.
What would be the point on answering his messages? Will it change his mind to make him give you what you want? Nope, you can't make him give you anything. He's probably missing what he had, but not thinking in changing his mind.