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| Thu, 02-22-2007 - 11:13am |
Me and my guy broke up and got back together. we got back together after being apart for a year. then we broke up again. my question is that when we go through hard times, he gets very mean spirited. I went out with a girlfriend of mine to a club and this guy walked me to the car, a friend of his was in the bar and told him that i was hugged up which i wasnt, then on another occasion when we broke up again (after we got back together) me and my friend and her guy went out for my bday, my girls man had his friend come meet us their, we all know each other, so i am intoxicated and having a fun time. me and this guy are just friends and he is married so we are on the dance floor and i rubbed his back, my guy came in and came on the dance floor and confronted us, we looked at him like he was crazy and went back to dancing. so now he gets mad because he said everyone seen me and the other guy dancing. but let it be known that he has been calling his ex wife behind my back. This has happened more then once (besides the year we were apart we were together 3 or 4 years) he thinks it is bad that i was seen out in public with another guy (mind you one was married and the other was a person i just met who walked me to my car) but he doesnt think he was at fault for calling his ex wife because no one seen him, I know this doesnt make since to me, but i need another take on this, and mind you that when we lived togehter, his other ex-girl sent him a bday gift to the house when were living together. i know this doesnt make since to me about him feeling that way when i didnt do anything wrong. I know i need to kick him to the curb, but i was wondering is this bias thing a MAN thing? I hope this makes sense.

Hi special_lady and welcome to the board.... well, personally I don't think the bias is a guy thing.