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What does this mean?
| Fri, 04-01-2005 - 5:08pm |
I was in an on again off again thing. This last time he broke it off he said "don't you know this hurts me just as much as it hurts you?" That just doesn't make any sense to me. I know he really enjoyed being with me, we had things in common, had a lot of fun together, etc., so why break it of if it is going to hurt yourself too? And he also said that we should see each other for a little while, but we could talk on the phone still. I wonder what does he think is really going to change in this little while of not seeing each other. My feelings will still be the same. I know he had told me he does not see any reason why two people can't remain friends after a break up. He thinks that is selfish if one person cannot be friends. I told him I can definitely see why someone could not be friends.

ikimmer5...
In order to become "just friends".....S-P-A-C-E is definitely a pre-requisite!
Assuming that just friendship is something you can accept with the man....let him have as much space as he wants.
ikimmer5...
"Being Truly Over" anybody as opposed to MOVING FORWARD WITH YOUR LIFE....will always be a conflicting choice!
But being just friends with him isn't something you want.
I talked to him just last night and he said he said I shouldn't have gotten caught up so much in the words (he had made it very clear he considered us just friends) and that I should listen to his actions more (he was being very affectionate). That is just so confusing to me. He used for example the night we went to the movies and he reached for my hand several times and I didn't do anything. This was after he had made it terribly clear we were "just" friends. I just want to scream and cry and everything. Did I miss something........did I not do something?
ikimmer5...
Are you THAT desperate to have a man's company?
Granted...you're not a teenager or in your 20s any longer, but aside from a little instant "SATISFACTION" (quoting Mick Jagger here)....how terrific are you going to be feeling when the weekend's over and the children are back home?