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What Happened?
| Mon, 07-02-2007 - 12:07am |
Never did one of these before so here goes, I am 24 who had been dating someone who was 37 which never in my life I didnt think I would do. In the begining he swept me off my feet but I always felt that men like him didnt exsist. I finally let my guard down and just let myself enjoy the feeling I was having for him. after dating for about five months he moved in with me about one hour from his job but it was all temporary. He ended up staying for about 6 months. during that time we took many trips celebrated holidyas together everything seemed pretty good. I even introduced him to my parents which I have never done before. He knew that because of the close relationship with my family they might not approve of his age. I did take a lot of heat from my dady when I told them about him, he was there for me in support because he knew how my parents felt would way on my mind. He then met them 4 days later on News Years eve. The changed started to happen in mid march he had since moved into his own place and he went from hot to cold in a matter of 2 weeks. We talked I told him How could he just all of a sudden put me out that way, he said I didnt deserve to be treated the way he has been treating me and he was truly sorry. He says hes not ready for a serious relationship which I also wasnt due to I am still in college and close to finishing and I need to have that focous. He says that in the future when he is ready he hopes I am still around and if I am not it would be his loss cause I could have been the one! We have a cruise in Aug. that we are still going on, we talk everyday we went from 6 times a day to twice a day. I noticed his cell phone bill has been outragous because we have a shared plan. I told him if he met someone new thats fine just let me know he says that all it is is friendship someone to talk to but I just dont believe it. So soryy this is so long I am so confused. I really thought because of his age he would be over the mind games. What should I do I need to get over him because the sadness i feel hurts too much.

Welcome to the board brownricaneyes,
By the sounds of his phone bill, I'd say he's found someone new to at least talk to and who knows, maybe he started up with her about the time he moved.
....."I noticed his cell phone bill has been outrageous because we have a shared plan. I told him if he met someone new thats fine just let me know he says that all it is is friendship someone to talk to but I just dont believe it.".....