THIS IS WHAT I WANTED YOUR OPINION ON...
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| Wed, 03-21-2007 - 9:22am |
I am NOT STUPID...I know that this man is NO GOOD...The part of my story, which I posted below, is what I wanted your opinion on. This is a man who keeps telling me that he loves me and to call him. I am the one who is not bothering with him and I DO NOT INTEND TO!!! He is a 56 year old man, who tried to convince me that he WAS NOT like other men. He would also tell me not to STEREOTYPE him with her other men....that he IS/WAS different.
I only wanted your opinion on what I posted below:
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On (Friday, March 16, 2007) when I got off the elevator after work, he was in the lobby area waiting to see me. I started to head for the door as I was not going to bother with him, and he just looked at me as if to say "WHAT ARE YOU DOING?". He couldn't believe that I was going to leave without talking to him. He wanted to find out how I was doing as he was concerned about me. I told him that I don't know what to expect from him anymore. He told me just last weekend that I shouldn't wait for him, we should let things cool down for now, and no more phone calls. He told me that he only said those things as I was stressed out dealing with everything regarding him and my family, and that it was best for me. He said he only meant that we shouldn't spend time together in the Food Court, but he still wants me to call him when I want; and that he still loves me and to remember what he wrote in the letters and the cards, which included poems that he wrote himself.
It was like he was scared not having any contact with me at all. He basicly took back what he said to me on the weekend about us not seeing each other at all and no phone calls.
I told him that I did alot of thinking over the past few days, and it is best that we don't see each other the way we used to. He told me not to do too much thinking (I guess he is afraid that I am going to give up on him altogether.) Regardless of his situation with her, she is still living in his home, and we both deserve better than just seeing each other in the workplace and talking by phone. I told him that. When I was leaving, I told him that I will talk to him soon; and he said "I HOPE SO."
I have a feeling that even though I have toughened up the past week regarding him, he is going to be the one to do his best to keep in touch and find ways to see me.
ALMOZA

Tigress,
Here's my opinion. Walk away from this liar and have nothing more to do with him. I'm not being flip. I'm trying to save you the pain that is so obviously in your future if you continue to allow this man in your life. I've read your previous posts, and I have the same reaction each time. RUN in the other direction when he gets anywhere near you.
Car
Hi tigress,
I agree with the previous poster. Every time I've read this post and others I really can't figure out what you want an opinion on.....so he says he wants to talk to you, that he did wrong pushing you away, he's STILL not in a position to do anything about it.
Same opinion here, you putting it in another way or wanting us to focus only on a certain aspect of it doesn't change the stripes on that zebra.
The fact that this man IS a liar, that he IS a cheater, that he IS a user, and that he IS a manipulator, should only serve to DRIVE HOME