what i will NOT miss about him

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Registered: 09-02-2006
what i will NOT miss about him
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Thu, 12-20-2007 - 3:55pm

he passes gas and thinks it's funny...


he tells me how to cook..and which utinsils (sp?)

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Registered: 07-19-2007
Fri, 12-21-2007 - 9:42pm

i have to jump in here...


what i will not miss:


drivng him everywhere we went.

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Registered: 10-14-2001
Fri, 12-21-2007 - 10:23pm

Great thread...


What I do not miss about the ex I am pining away for now...


*His constant need for stimulation whether it's music, movies he's seen over and over, or just traveling to get away from life.

Soliel
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Registered: 10-03-2005
Fri, 12-21-2007 - 11:01pm

He always put his

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Registered: 11-12-2006
Fri, 12-21-2007 - 11:22pm

His gossipy mother and her best friend who talked trash about me. I guess they couldn't stand my good reputation.


How he never stood up for me to them. He just told me he doesn't want to be involved.


How his "best friend" who is a girl would stay the night with him. By the way.. they have had sex before.


The way he would always pressure me to sexually please him. I'm not your damn sex slave.


How he never ever complimented me, no matter how much I tried. He claims "that's not him".


How he was rude to waiters and such.


I will not miss "You're going out with that gay kid?" Hah!


The way he would sing in a girly voice. Ugh.


How rude he is to everyone in general. Everyone knows he is an ass.


He never would come over. I guess because we couldn't fool around at my house because my parents actually care.


How my mom hated us being together. She knew he was bad for me..


He was never really sincere with me. If that makes sense..


Are those good enough reasons?

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Registered: 07-19-2007
Sat, 12-22-2007 - 12:02am

oh ya the guy I dated has a best friend that is a girl too and they claim they never did the bump and grind... but I always said "well maybe you otta so maybe the sexual tension will dissipate.

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Registered: 10-12-2004
Sat, 12-22-2007 - 9:23am

I posted this on my original post, but it definitely fits here too!

I won't miss:

-Watching him drink a six pack every night (or a quarter bottle of whiskey)
-him coming to bed at midnight when i've been sleeping for 2 hours (i work early) and expecting you know what
-him going out with a certain friend and either crashing at his house (not coming home) or his friend driving him home at 2am only to wake me up because they're drunk and loud (this is a weekly occurrence)
-him not showing affection to me, like hold my hand or kiss me other than a peck goodnight
-Having to always ask for a back or foot rub
-No playfulness, you know the playful grabs and squeezes :)
-Doing his laundry
-Cooking dinner at night only to have him say he won't be home
-His sloppyness, he'll change out of his work clothes and they'll lay in the hallway
-No help with chores, he takes out the trash if I leave him a note.
-PROCRASTINATION (no follow through on anything which is inherited from his parents)
-Him getting so drunk every weekend he's stumbling around the bar or house
-him telling me I keep him from his friends and family????
-His parents who are daily functional alcoholics, gee where does he get it from?
-Having to take care of all the bills
-The way he spends his money, he tracks his balance by checking his debit card at the atm.
-Sitting home by myself upset that he doesn't want to spend any time with me.
-him never taking me out on a date. Always has to have friends along.
-He's never taken me to a movie.
-him just not being excited about me anymore.

Really, I feel sorry for the next girl.....

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Sat, 12-22-2007 - 9:38am

Oh yeah, count me in on this one!

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Registered: 03-19-2004
Sat, 12-22-2007 - 8:35pm

I broke up with ex 1.5 years ago. And I sure don't miss the following:

1) his drinking and being an ass with me when drunk

2) him not having a little extra time during the week to see me (LDR - 1 hour away, he was in town several times a week, and I only got to see him on the weekends) WOW! - he would always tell me he spent the whole weekend with me, like if that was supposed to be enough.

3) him looking out for the ex-wife still after being divorced 8 years (they still had title on vehicles and house together - pretty weird relationship, as far as I am concerned she can have him.

4) him staring at other women when we were together

I am doing great, not having to worry about these issues anymore, I am free, thank God, now these issues can go back to the ex-wife. For some reason I could not get over the ex-wife, they have two children, one married and the other one in college, every time something happened, the ex was always calling him to ask him for money and other things. I am so much better off now.

Anna


Anna

 

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