what a jerk !!! why did he cheat ?

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Registered: 12-11-2003
what a jerk !!! why did he cheat ?
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Tue, 11-09-2004 - 9:41pm
I just found out MS cheated on me with his ex-gf... I'm sooo upset and hurt and I dont know what to do. I tried calling him to get an answer, but his roomate said he doesnt want to talk to me. I left messages on his cell and on the house phone and, yet, he still hasnt called me back... I didnt do anything wrong and I want an answer and I think I deserve an answer !! I want to know WHY he cheated on me !!! I'm going to the doctor on friday (today is tuesday) to get tested for STD... Now what...

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anonymous user
Tue, 11-09-2004 - 9:51pm
Yeah you have a right to be mad! How did you find out that he cheated on you? I'm just curious?
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Registered: 12-11-2003
Tue, 11-09-2004 - 9:55pm
I was over at his house and the door bell rang and he ran out of the room and answered the door. It was his ex-gf and i heard the conservation. When i heard this, I ran out of the house and said its over !
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anonymous user
Tue, 11-09-2004 - 10:18pm
I would have done the same thing! Oh my gosh you heard the conversation...that must have been terrible for you! You do need answers. The only thing I can advise you is that you find out the answers you need to find and just move on. I believe a cheater always a cheater. My boyfriend and I just recently broke up because I got weird feelings that he was cheating so we went our separate ways. He swore that he never cheated on me but I found an email that this girl wrote him and it sounds to me like he was cheating. I can never trust him! I do miss him alot and I would like things to work out, but I don't want to pursue the relationship if all I'm going to be thinking about is if he still is cheating. I'm always going to remember. I may forget but the memory will always be there.

Good luck to you and keep us posted.