What was he really trying to say?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2007
What was he really trying to say?
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Mon, 08-06-2007 - 10:58am

Hi everyone,

About a week ago my bf and I broke up. Yesterday I got an e-mail from him asking me to mail him a blue winter jacket he lend me this past winter. He never asked about it up until now. I e-mail him back and ask him why would he be needing a jacket in the summer? He responded that he doesn't need it now, but it would be smart to send it to him since I will be moving soon and he doesn't want his jacket to be put away in boxes. He lives in CT and I live in Jersey. Why would someone remember about a jacket in the middle of the summer??? A day after we broke up I'd left my favorite skirt and blouse at his home, but I took it as lost item, because I was not going to call him for that.

What does this means? Any ideas on how to handle this type of e-mails? I miss him terribly.

Thanks
Luna

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2006
Mon, 08-06-2007 - 11:42am
Sounds like he means what he says. Since he wants his stuff back, maybe it would be wise to take the opportunity to ask for your favorite stuff back also.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 08-06-2007 - 12:41pm

Welcome to the board Luna,


It only means he wants his stuff back. You may have written yours off as a loss, but clearly he hasn't. It's not the same for every person.