what , what, WHAT!!?

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Registered: 04-04-2007
what , what, WHAT!!?
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Wed, 04-04-2007 - 11:40am

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that people can be so synical about love?? i guess it isn't that bad. . .like having children as we ALL do it again, again and again. player or not in the end it really isn't my loss now is it!! cuz i beleive that what goes around comes around and the shoe will be on the players own foot one day. unfortunately, that may be the time that they realize that the good got away or worse yet that the affection they now feel for the non-player isn't reciprocated. . .and i write this for ALL players, male and female alike!! cuz we know that women can be just as good a player as any man can.

so i say to lightandbright that i'm glad your love life is so grand that you can afford to be so synical about someone elses love life. not that i disagree with what you stated, however not knowing the whole story your pretty quick to jump to the conclusion he's a player and like i said . . . if he is a player and i got played who's loss is that?? definately not mine!!

Edited 4/4/2007 2:38 pm ET by that-girl




Edited 4/4/2007 2:49 pm ET by that-girl
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Registered: 11-21-2003
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 12:09pm

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IMHO, you're just a fool. Wake up from that "rosy dream" of yours and smell the roses girl! The man is a player and players are charmers. He says all the right things when it's convenient for him. He says what you want to hear. You fall for him over and over and over and over and.....

If he ended things with the other girl at work, what's the problem? Why is he and you so concerned if she finds out that he broke it up with her because of you? What's the big deal? You no longer work there and he can do what he pleases. He's done that before. He's carried relationships with both of you. His standards in life say he can. After all, you and him weren't serious, just hanging. Hanging out with him will just bring you more of the same you've had with this man...a casual relationship.

I'd ask you...what, what, WHAT are you still doing hanging around this guy? The man is a player. He can charm your pants off and you wouldn't even noticed it. When he has gotten what he wants he'll drop you like a hot potato and will move on to charming another girl who will fall for him over and over and....

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Registered: 04-04-2007
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 12:20pm

lightandbright

thank you cuz i thought the exact same thing about the other girl!! i don't see him any longer and haven't for a while. i was just very interested to know that regardless of how i feel about him what i'm feeling is right in regards to the excuses.

thanks for the confirmation, greatly appreciated!!