what would you do?

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Registered: 02-27-2007
what would you do?
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Mon, 05-07-2007 - 11:31am
so there is this guy in my math class and he has been hitting on me since it began. He is the opposite of my ex. He is very into talking about feelings and is very giggly and silly. He is not my type and someone that would probably annoy my ex. He is a definite shot to my esteem since my ex told me I was middle of the road. I was neither attractive nor unattractive. Since that I've felt like there's all these girls out there that guys look at and see beauty and I would never have that. Meanwhile this guy loooooves the way I look. I tried to get him to go away by telling him that I wasn't girly, I have stretch marks and loose skin from my weight loss and this is probably the thinnest I was going to go because let's face it I'm naturally thick. My body likes being 150ish. He told me my stretch marks are a turn on because of my hard work, he's always talking about how my body looks. The only thing is that I can't help but compare him to my ex. He is older then my ex and still in community college. He likes the way I look which leads me to believe there must be something wrong with him that he would settle for what this other guy has tossed away. I see attractive guys with chubby girls and I can never understand it. Why does my ex look at me and other girls of my thickness and see middle of the road and other guys see someone they want to be with and make love to. Are they settling? Anyway should I give this guy a shot?


Edited 5/7/2007 3:57 pm ET by civiljenna
"More and more it seems like I'm doing a really bad impersonation of myself."
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 05-14-2007 - 4:54pm

Hi civiljenna,


It doesn't matter what you ex would think of this guy.