Whatever.............

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2007
Whatever.............
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Tue, 03-18-2008 - 9:28pm

How do you talk to an ex that you have a child with??

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2007
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 9:30pm

and when I post a message, why am I getting the little reg flag.............


AAAAHH!!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 9:33pm

There's not a lot you can do about him being an idiot, sorry (item 1).


As for number 2, though--start the process now for having CS taken out of his paycheck directly.


Sure, you "should" both be adults, but that would mean he'd have to act like one too--don't hold your breath.

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Registered: 03-27-2005
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 9:41pm

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Registered: 06-24-2007
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 9:53pm

I have sole legal and physical custody of her and he has visitation every other weekend.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 10:22pm

I know it takes longer than it should but at least

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 11:54pm

Consider one of these:


The Good Divorce; Keeping Your Family Together when Your Marriage Comes Apart by Constance Ahrons