What's with this "friends" thing??
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| Wed, 05-24-2006 - 12:10am |
So I've read everyone's posts and realized that we are all in the same situation, or at least most of us are. These men, they dump us but tell us how much they want to be friends. What is with these men!?! Is it a problem that they cannot make up their minds, or they just want to hang onto us incase something better does not come along? Are they just not brave enough to say "sorry this isn't going to work"? I know in my situation, my ex had emotional issues and it was quite different from others here, but also he wanted the friends thing. Do they not get how much hanging onto us hurts us? You simply CANNOT change a relationship from being intimate to suddenly being a buddy you hang out with, no touching involved. But THEN there is the confusing signals. So even though you've technically broken up, he still wants to cuddle with you and put his arm around you (but kissing is off limits :S) ... what IS this?? Did this happen in our parents generation or is this something that's a trend with young males today?
That's my rant for tonight. I'm sure you can all relate to it!

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