when "breaks" don't work

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Registered: 02-17-2008
when "breaks" don't work
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Sun, 02-17-2008 - 8:22pm

my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year, but for the past couple months we've been having problems. Fighting over stupid little things, annoyed with each other, feeling rejected, no longer happy together(to name a few.)

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Registered: 01-24-2007
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 8:11am

I think you've done all you can for now. If your feelings are such, it is probably time to move on. It is not fair to him, or to you, to stay in a relationship where you're not totally happy. Sometimes things like this just happen, for no particular reason. Relationships fade and people change.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 12:56pm

Welcome to the board ciaobella3,


What kinds of things are the two of you doing to build emotional intimacy?


Reading material to consider:


Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis


Five Love Languages, Gary Chapman


Relationship Rescue by Phil McGraw


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Registered: 06-22-2006
Tue, 02-19-2008 - 1:29pm

Flames don't die, we put them out.

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