i wish i could give you a time, but it varies with everyone. some people process pain quickly. others, not really. my breakup happened half a year ago, and i had a major freakout just last week. i think the fact that yall aren't talking is a big step forward though. it'll help you move on that much quicker. best of luck
Welcome to the board ktmay6,
Grief is a powerful emotion and everyone reacts to it differently.
Relationship Grieving Process - http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlbreaking&msg=22985.1
How To Get Over Your Breakup - http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlbreaking&msg=21185.1
Sorry you are going through this.
That's an impossible question to answer in terms of time, although you'll get a bunch of different guesses from pretty much anyone you'd ask.