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When they start seeing someone else
| Mon, 06-05-2006 - 9:44am |
It had only been 3 weeks since our breakup when he started seeing someone else. I thought I was doing ok and getting through this, focusing on myself and channeling my energy into school, working out, and being social. But this really threw me down. It's now 3 months later and I just can't get it out of my mind. I try not to think about it, think about them but it still kills me. After a 1.5 relationship he moved on so quickly. He ended it, out of nowhere. We have mutual friends and they all tell me how much better I am, more fun, interesting, pretty, etc. They say shes just a rebound but they spend all their time together. Also I feel of course my friends would say all this because they are my friends too right? I wish I could get it out of my head. I want to stop hoping he'll realize this new girl isn't for him. I don't cry or anything like I used too, I am alot stronger it just is still stuck in my thoughts and I want it to stop. I dunno maybe just venting and seeking some advice with how to deal when your ex starts seeing someone else... so soon after the breakup! Anyone else gone through this?

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After I found out that my ex was seeing someone else after we broke up for 3 weeks, i have NC with him for 2 weeks.. Then out of nowhere, he called n said he loves me n not her... he said she was there to 'distract' him from the pain of me n him breaking up, he does not love her n yet he gave excuse of not wanting to break up with her n yet holding on to me...
I know he still love me but he also have lots of fear of not being able to be with me... she came along as a rebound but now he could not leave her as he has yet another fear: If he break up with her, n we dun work out at the end, he will loss both of us!
I told him i can never 'share' my guy, so she can have him....
I'm dealing with this right now and it hurts, my ex and I dated for a year about two years ago and then we reunited and had this "relationship" since September, he always swore there was no one else. Anyways, I hadn't heard from him in a week since I had seen him the previous weekend so I texted him and after a few texts I get this message - from his phone - saying that he really doesn't care honey, stop texting, we are trying to get some sleep.
This is a mere week later so he has probably been lying to her too. What jerk would involve a stranger into their conversation when he knew I was upset and hurting.
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