When was the beginning of the end??!
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|Thu, 07-28-2011 - 2:03pm|
Im a 23 year old guy and I have just recently broken up with my gf who I had been dating for a year and a half. Ill tell you a little bit about her and I. She is going into her last year of university in ottawa. I live 4 hours away. We dated all last year through her schooling and it was perfect. I have a full time job and I just bought my own house and move in next week. I thought I had it all going for me and thought my relationship was going well.
A couple weeks ago I was gettign mixed feelings from her BIG TIME. She didnt seem to connect to me and seemed to be pushing me away. This is not the first time its happened she has done it before at school where she acts like this. Anyways I got very skeptical and HAD to figure out what was going on. I grabbed her phone when she was in the shower and found her texting another guy who she works with very secual things, and my heart hit the floor. I confronted her immediately and left.
So anyways I called it off because I cant trust the girl anymore, and I literally gave this girl everything and was always there for her. But now i wanna know if she was just using me? Did I give her too much? Why if she was doing that behind my back couldnt she just call it off? It would hurt much less if she did that. Also, now im dealing with some really weird stuff because she sends me text messages as if nothing happened. yesterday she sent me one saying "your so cute"....I just dont get what her motive is. Now it seems like she wants to be nice and have my attention when before she wanted nothign to do with me.