when will I stop obsessing over him?
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| Wed, 07-11-2007 - 4:09pm |
My boyfriend and I were together for almost a year. We talked/chatted everyday, sometimes for hours, and then saw each other at least once a week when we could. We never had sex, so I guess that puts me in a different situation, but we were very close. We had a very special relationship, he respected me, but always kept me at an emotional distance. Finally, it was too much, and we broke up. The problem is, for the last week, I still log online to see if he's on, to see if he's been on, and I wonder what he's doing and who he's with...and I feel just sick. I feel stuck to the computer and my telephone wanting him to either sign on and say hello or call me. I miss him, but I know he's not coming back and I know it's for the best. I also know that chatting with him a little everyday, doing the whole, "lets be friends" thing isn't helping either. We chatted last night and he told me about how he's going out of town to visit another girl on Friday, then went on to tell me about how he was mad because some guy was talking to another girl he was interested in...I mean, just totally insensitive. To me, it feels like he's trying to send a clear message and I just need to cut off all communication instead of dragging it out and making it harder on myself.
Thanks for listening.
| Wed, 07-11-2007 - 5:08pm |
