When will it end?
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When will it end?
| Sun, 01-13-2008 - 9:46pm |
I have asked my ex fiance to move out a year ago. He begged and pleaded that we work things out. I didnt say yes but I didnt rush him out either. Maybe I felt no one else would love me like he did. But he doesnt love me like I think I deserve to be loved anyway. So I asked him again 6 months ago, even gave him the ring back and that is why he is my ex fiance now. But he did not leave again. I started feeling like he was using me for the cheap rent . But i thought Id wait till after the holidays because I know its hard to find a place around that time. So I told him again last week. And I told him this is it, I cant take it anymore. In thepast year he hasnt even tried to make me feel special or show me that this relationship is worth saving. He is just taking up space. But now he's mopping around and making me feel like its all my fault. And of course the nice person I am keeps thinking maybe we should talk it out again(for like the 100th time) but everyone keeps telling me to ignore him. Make him feel unwanted and maybe he'll finally get the point. I just dont know

Oh goodness, this one's going to hurt...
....."How can you stay in a place you are not wanted? Who does that?".....
Yes it is my house, under my name only. And I have told him several times already to leave. I even told him hes lucky I havent called the cops and he got so angry asking if I thought he was a convict. I said no, you just disrespect my wishes. Ive even asked my family that lives with me to help me out, but no luck with that.
I will work out a letter tomorrow stating I want him out and by when. I just cant take this anymore.
Good for you. Be strong, it's for the best in the long run. You're not doing him or yourself any favors continuing to let him stay.
Best of luck and let us know how it goes.