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| Thu, 12-07-2006 - 7:12pm |
i dont know how to start my dilemma here it goes my long time friend text me a message and i decided to called her..actually this friend of mine we haven't spoke for a long time cuz we kinda get to a arguments....anyways for some reason she text me and i'm not the person that has a big ego..you know...so for me its over..
so when i called her...everything went fine and i told her that when i spoke with my exbf like few months ago..he told me that he saw her in a party...so she told me she did and with someone(girl)
actually she ask him who's that girl(cuz that time she thought i'm still with him)...so he said it was my friend...my friend told me the girl name. but even in my dream i never hear her name...lol and the weird part was when my friend ask how's our relationship...so he told her that were over cuz he doesnt have time for a relationship....SO NOW WHAT I'M GETTING PISSED ABOUT IS THAT IT SEEMS THAT MY EXBF IS BEING BIGHEADED...IMMATURE..SELFISH.
i mean his with this girl and his going to tell my friend he doesnt have time for me...and but with this slut he does...THAT TIME I'M PRETTY SURE IT WAS THE TIME THAT ME AND HIM JUST BARELY BREAKING UP....
no wonder why everytime i talked to him he always ask me if i saw my friend...i'm assuming he wants me to know to make me jealous...but i never find out since last night...what a jerk...i thank god that i refuse to see him when he ask me if he could come by....i just wish he could get some disease....to pay back for what he did...i know he has a right to date..to whom ever he want cuz we are not together anymore...but my point is stop using the term "I DONT HAVE TIME"...CUZ FOR ME NO MATTER HOW BUSY A PERSON COULD BE...IF THEY LOVE THE PERSON THEY WILL MAKE SOME TIME FOR THEM...RIGHT???
grrrrr i'm so pissed....

Once you meet the guy that is right for you, no he will not make up excuses like "I don't have time" He will want to be with you and spend time with you and will not want to be with other girls at the same time. Channel that anger into focusing on yourself and what you really want in a boyfriend and in a relationship. Once you have figured that out, I guarantee you this guy won't even meet your criteria.
Best of luck!
YG
YG
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What he told your friend and what he really feels may be two different things - people don't tend to share the truth with friends of an ex.
And calling the girl he was with at the party names is not very mature either. I know you are hurt, angry and upset....yet you really don't know the extent of their relationship.
He may ask if you saw your friend because he's embarassed and doesn't want you to know what he said to her.
Things are not always what they seem.
Saying he doesn't have time for a relationship and casual dating are two different things as well.
Consider venting your anger in the form of UNSENT letters to him. Scream at him on paper. Then burn the letter(s). Write as many as you need to feel better. And since you said 'no' to seeing him, maybe it's time to not take his calls either.
Sorry you have to go through this.
Carrie
thanks for the reply...actually i didnt really make it clear with my friend if his really with that girl..
i talked to my friend yesterday again...she was saying something but i kinda interrupt her i think she was trying to tell me that my exbf was not really with that girl maybe they just saw each other in that party and just talking...but ofcourse i want to show my friend that i'm not interested of knowing it....yeah right LOL
anyways i know my exbf....his always trying to make me jealous...yap your right i should start ignoring his calls...so he'll start wondering why i'm not answering his calls....its been about a month now since the last time i spoke with him....and i'm not planning to call him...his bday is coming up...actually he greet me on my bday...but i'm not....hahaha lol