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| Fri, 06-02-2006 - 12:05am |
Doug and i have dated for 3 years...when he first met me i weighed 150lbs..i was looking great senior year, but after a uphill battle with stress i gained over 60lbs in 2 years. Currently our relationship has been great, during finacil hardships Doug took the lead and helped me with school and other finaces..he believed in me ..he said
Heck we were getting so close that talk of marriage and moving in togther was in the conversations...something that we never took serious 2 years back. But two nights ago we were cuddling when I asked him why it was I had not met his friends but twice in the 3 yrs ive known him,,now im one to let him have guy time...which is 2-3 times a week..were young...but not being invited to tag along was hurting so i began to wonder...i knew he wasnt doing anything wrong..hes a good soul,,,he wouldnt cheat...but the fact that he was embaraased of me crossed my mind...i told him my hypothesis...and he admitted that he was a lil embarrassed..that he wanted that girl he met 2 yrs ago...and he also said he was worried that it was making me depressed too...which was sort of true...he went on to say that he just wanted me to be happier with myself to because my self confidence was dropping...
I guess my question is should i stay with a man who is embaraced with me... give up all the good because he is? i mean i know its true..i do need to lose some weight...but weres the line>? and how should i react to this?i know its a lilttle unfair that i am not the same girl he fell in love with...and i know he loves me regardless...but how do i recover from a blow like that..

Well, to be hoest with you, it doesn't seem like he was wanting to hurt you in any way.