Why can't I get over him

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-14-2007
Why can't I get over him
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Mon, 08-20-2007 - 10:35am

I hate weekends. I'm so used to him being there w/ me. I had a really tough weekend because all I could think about was him. And I know he is w/ her and it kills me every time.

I was a faithful loving girlfriend for over 3 years. How could he just leave me and go so low. I mean she's still married w/ a daughter in prison and a son that lives at home. This chick goes out and gets wasted every Friday and Saturday while her 15 year old son sits at home. What does she have that I don't?????

A few months back when he was having the affair he told his friends the sex was awesome w/ her but they had nothing in common. I went and had a drink last night and ran into a friend who saw him over the weekend and she said he looks so unhappy w/ this new girlfriend. He told me he's very happy and at peace. WHAT IS THAT ABOUT???

I know we'll never get back together but I still love and care about him so much. We spent every waking moment together for the past 3 years. He tells me I was his best friend, lover, and soulmate. WHAT??!!

How can he stoop so low??? You think he's really happy w/ this woman??

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 08-20-2007 - 1:24pm

Welcome to the board angie_k_r,


First and most importantly, YOU are NOT less than because of his actions, decisions, words, choices or behavior.

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Mon, 08-20-2007 - 1:33pm

Ok, I can see I'm going to be doing some buttkicking around here this morning ;)


....."How can he stoop so low??? You think he's really happy w/ this woman??".....

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