why do guys say they love you or care a lot about you but then push you away?

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Registered: 03-07-2010
why do guys say they love you or care a lot about you but then push you away?
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Tue, 05-10-2011 - 2:46pm

my ex boyfriend of two years he is 28 i am 27, he broke up with me because he couldnt handle everything that was going on when his mother died in january. we were suppose to get married in a year to two years from now. anyway we had to go to court yesterday and it was two months of us not seeing each other. he looked at me the whole time basically, and he looked sad/lost/red faced. i only looked at him once by accident and quickly looked away, other then that i didnt look at him at all. after the judge released us my ex decides he wants to ask to say something so the judge lets him and he starts saying how great of a person i am and beautiful inside and out and things like that in a emotional type of tone too so the judge during this cuts him off and lets us go again. then in the parking lot he kept walking and then stopping and looking at me in my car and then again walk then stop and looking at me in my car.

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Registered: 04-23-2010
Why were the two of you in court?

We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.

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Registered: 04-21-2008

Hi there.

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Registered: 04-25-2011

I'm really trying to understand your post........and its very hard without punctuation - you need to give more info (court)

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Registered: 05-12-2011

I'm not sure why men do this... It happend to me though he told me he cared and loved me so much but then he just told me that he was breaking up with me for his Ex I couldn't understand why for a such a long while. I finally just got over the fact that men do this.