why do men cheat

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Registered: 08-30-2004
why do men cheat
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Tue, 11-01-2005 - 4:41pm
Why can't men be faithful? And why do they hurt females that they so called care for.Why when you try to move on do your ex's make it hard (calling, ims, visits etc.) If you don't want a relationship with someone why not just let them go away.I think men can be selfish
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 11-01-2005 - 4:56pm

People (both men and women) cheat because their values say it's ok to do so.

I know you're going through a painful time but try to resist the urge to think in terms of "all" men being like your ex. They are not.

Be strong and do everything YOU can to cut off contact, including filing a harrassment report with the police if necessary (but hopefully doing things like blocking him from calling, emailing or IMing will be sufficient).

Sheri

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Registered: 09-22-2005
Wed, 11-02-2005 - 1:47pm

I know sometimes it seems like there are just no faithful men out there, but there are.

Nikki