Why do people think we'll reunite?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-13-2007
Why do people think we'll reunite?
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Sat, 08-11-2007 - 5:13pm

It happened again! I've been without him for 2.5 months and someone else just told me that he and I were meant to be, that he'll realize the mistake he made, and we'll get back together. It was his decision to end our relationship. These are my closest friends who know me best. No way! I don't want to hear this...I just want to move on and have him gone out of my life forever!

These comments are not going to help my recovery. I ask them to stop but they keep coming at me with this rediculous notion. I could NEVER go back! Help!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2007
Sat, 08-11-2007 - 6:16pm

mmmm.

You could interrupt them when they bring it up and ask them to not speak on the subject. Change the subject when it happens, etc etc. If y ou were meant to be, he wouldn't have broken up with you. You don't break up with the love of your life.

It's important to remember that these people weren't living the relationship with you. Sometimes what seem to be perfect relationships actually have a lot of turmoil on the inside. YOU know this relationships best and perhaps it's time to remind them to respect your decision to move on.

- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your