why does he call me now?
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why does he call me now?
| Fri, 09-10-2004 - 2:34pm |
we all know how hard it is to move on after a bad relationship. I broke up with my ex two months ago because he was a JERK. He was great one minute and a jerk the next. So after 2 months of no contact, he calls me to see who I am doing and how good it is to hear from me and he's glad I am doing alright. Whats up with this? I dont care abput him......parts of me still hurt, but I am healing. Why is he doing this and no I dont want to get back together.......I responded normally and told him I was fine....but I am doing so well. I wish he would not call me....any advice?
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| Fri, 09-10-2004 - 2:58pm |
If you honestly don't want him to call you anymore, just simply tell him not to. And if he keeps at it, you have the power to just ignore his phone calls, if you choose to.
| Sat, 09-11-2004 - 12:31am |
Hi, winter. My ex is doing the same thing. he's done this on and off for the past six months. I just ignore him. It's easier that way. he was a jerk to me, too, while we were trying to patch things up. Or at least he told me he was trying to patch things up, but his actions were screaming that he wanted to play, too. So I finally got myself out. it was extremely difficult at first, but my sanity is more important than him. I would just continue to ignore him. He will eventually get the message.
| Sat, 09-11-2004 - 1:38pm |
Sounds like you handled it perfectly...keep those strong thoughts in your head. Don't allow him to come back in and open wounds that are healing.
