Why does it got to be so hard to let go.

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Registered: 03-19-2007
Why does it got to be so hard to let go.
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Mon, 03-19-2007 - 5:15am

Well me and my boi friend broke up over the weekend and we been kinda broken up since Jan 19th 2007 when he up and moved out on me after 11 months and i love him and i tryed everything you can since then, i keep finding my self crying and hurting so much over some thing i think is gone. but i try to stay strong but i don't know how much more i can take how can you not be around this person feel what u feel for them. and over the weekend we went out with some friends to a nite club in jax's fl. and befor the end of the nite i cough him kissing maken out with a guy right there in front me and now i am hurting so bad that i still want to see him why is this so carzy that just want him and do not see other people in the same way.. i just want to be happy and know now i need to move on but with out him so what kinda thing do i do help me get past this hard time i am trying to deal with it with out fallin apart.

Thank you for listen
~TommyBoi

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Registered: 11-28-2006
Mon, 03-19-2007 - 8:02am
I don't know the answer, but I feel your pain. I woke up at 4:00 a.m. today crying. I just want the hurt to go away. I don't know how you can deal with going out with him. I wouldn't be able to do it, esp. if he's flirting, kissing other people. That would make me insane. I think no contact is easier than that, although it's no picnic. I keep picking up my phone to see if maybe he's called and I just didn't hear it. Pathetic, pathetic, pathetic.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 03-19-2007 - 5:13pm

Welcome to the board tommyboi,


Grieving is