Of course you're hurting! Hugs to you! But you will get over this! I believe this feeling you have is temporary. Of course you'll feel a twang of jealousy. He's moving on and he found someone new. Even though you may not have found someone new, I guarantee you will someday, and you'll be so happy, and you'll know that this new relationship is right, and better than the one you had. And then you'll just be happy for your ex.
Right now, it may be hard to be happy for your ex, if you're not completely over him.
Why her and not you? Who knows? But that doesn't mean you were less of a person, that you weren't a great girlfriend or whatever. He just didn't appreciate that enough! And now he's with someone who it's easy for him to be around, not put too much effort into, and to me it's sounds like a rebound.
You seem to be going on the right path to recovery so just hang in there!
Sex and the City is such a great reference. I try to think back to certain episodes that are similar to what I experience. In this case, remember the episode where Carrie meets Bigg at his engagement party and she asks "Why not me"? And he says "It got too hard." And then she walks away and comes to the realization that she wasn't meant to be tamed, that she was meant to ride wild, and she had to find someone as wild as her.
With that said, you will find someone who is for you. Maybe you're not for him, but that's totally his loss.
Hang in there and stop contact with him! He doesnt need to unload his life onto you! It's very selfish on his part.
Hey lindseyloo3035 -
Of course you're hurting! Hugs to you! But you will get over this!
I believe this feeling you have is temporary. Of course you'll feel a twang of jealousy. He's moving on and he found someone new. Even though you may not have found someone new, I guarantee you will someday, and you'll be so happy, and you'll know that this new relationship is right, and better than the one you had. And then you'll just be happy for your ex.
Right now, it may be hard to be happy for your ex, if you're not completely over him.
Why her and not you? Who knows? But that doesn't mean you were less of a person, that you weren't a great girlfriend or whatever. He just didn't appreciate that enough! And now he's with someone who it's easy for him to be around, not put too much effort into, and to me it's sounds like a rebound.
You seem to be going on the right path to recovery so just hang in there!
Sex and the City is such a great reference. I try to think back to certain episodes that are similar to what I experience. In this case, remember the episode where Carrie meets Bigg at his engagement party and she asks "Why not me"? And he says "It got too hard." And then she walks away and comes to the realization that she wasn't meant to be tamed, that she was meant to ride wild, and she had to find someone as wild as her.
With that said, you will find someone who is for you. Maybe you're not for him, but that's totally his loss.
Hang in there and stop contact with him! He doesnt need to unload his life onto you! It's very selfish on his part.
Good luck and big hugs!
Hi lindseyloo,
What you feel is normal. Even if it's not from jealousy, it can be a bunch of other things