Why? Seeing my ex and his new gal
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Why? Seeing my ex and his new gal
| Fri, 11-03-2006 - 1:15am |
I just ran into my ex-boyfriend whom I haven't seen or talked to in two months. The hard part is that he was with his new girlfriend.
How do you deal with that?
This was the first guy I totally gave myself to. I loved him with all of my heart and was everything that I could be as a partner. I came to find out that he couldn't deal with anything emotionally challenging. Even though we were engaged to be married, he decided to move into his own place, and then for weeks proceeded to tell me that we were still going to be together, he just needed space. Then he stopped answering my calls. Then he broke up with me without telling me. All the while I was in the dark, I kept trying and never lost faith in him. Anyways, how can a person be so calloused and withdrawn that he can move onto another girlfriend so quickly? How did I fall for such a shallow person?
I have never felt so much pain in my life
How do you deal with that?
This was the first guy I totally gave myself to. I loved him with all of my heart and was everything that I could be as a partner. I came to find out that he couldn't deal with anything emotionally challenging. Even though we were engaged to be married, he decided to move into his own place, and then for weeks proceeded to tell me that we were still going to be together, he just needed space. Then he stopped answering my calls. Then he broke up with me without telling me. All the while I was in the dark, I kept trying and never lost faith in him. Anyways, how can a person be so calloused and withdrawn that he can move onto another girlfriend so quickly? How did I fall for such a shallow person?
I have never felt so much pain in my life

I'm sorry for what you're going through. It's really hard, isn't it? I remember how painful it was when I found out that one ex (who I've been with for 4 years, lived with for 3) *moved in* with another woman a mere *2 weeks* after we broke up! I was devastated as you can imagine.
But the pain DOES pass--eventually. Hopefully you don't have to see him very often. The best thing you can do for yourself is to focus on accepting that he's not right for you...a man who is right for you would not have done that to you. You were mistaken as to his character (it happens, don't beat yourself up about that) but now you know what type of person he really is.
Sheri
what a j...rk???? anyways you dont deserved him....JUST REMEMBER WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND "KARMA"...right? so chin up...i know its hard but evrything will be oky...it will take SOME time....for right now cry if you want to cuz this will help you ease that pain...actually my first love did that to me also after i broke up with him...he start dating this girl(well actually now he got married with that same girl). well good for him....but look up to now that girl still jealous about me...she always talking bad about me....always looking for some info about me...all of that staff...well maybe cuz she still think that shes a BIG REBOUND....right?
so on your situation make yourself busy...let him realized that his A BIG LOSER....GOOD LUCK