Why why why

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Registered: 08-14-2007
Why why why
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Thu, 08-16-2007 - 10:37am

Went to therapy yesterday and had a really good session. My ex sent me an e-mail earlier that morning saying he would pay for my sessions going forward because he obviously feels guilty for what he did.

I asked the receptionist yesterday if he had dropped off a check and he didn't. Go figure right. So I paid.

As I was leaving. I looked out the door and whose car was sitting next to mine?!?! Yes his. I hadn't seen his face in 2 weeks. I knew I had to be tough and strong. I walked out to my car and he stepped out of his. He asked if I received his text messages and I said no I was in session. He asked if I had already paid and I said yes. He then said well here's a check I was going to pay for you.

As I was walking I just said "put it in the mail" and got in my car and left. He then sent me a text 2 seconds later saying he was sorry his mind was scatter brained today.

WHY WHY WHY??? Why would he come and drop off a check when he knows the receptionist leaves earlier which means you have to pay before your session.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: angie_k_r
Thu, 08-16-2007 - 12:02pm

Woah--why are you even thinking of accepting this? You need to cut all ties with him, otherwise you'll stay hooked in to him and this kind of drama.

Let him know that you're fine taking care of yourself and that you are done having any contact with him. And then do what you can to block him from contacting you.

Sheri