Why won't she let me go!!!!
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| Mon, 08-30-2004 - 10:25am |
First I want to thank you for helping me with my situation. This past week has been a living hell for me. After a year of relationship with my ex, I found out she had been cheating on me with another guy for the past month. She never broke up with me, and kept her face up the entire time. When I found out, I was totally torn apart. But since I know she loves me and I personally never loved anyone more than her, I decided to forgive her and work things out. Things were fine for couple of days til he comes over and she can control it...Then I get a call the next day her crying and begging me to take her back...This is hurting me so much because it is an open wound and I can never heal it. It starts healing, then she opens it and it starts again..I am totally hurt and can't handle this anymore..I broke up with her so many time within these past 3 weeks, but again she comes back and wants me back..Then again she goes out with him or sleeps with him...I want her to let me go...I really do...I want to stop getting hurt and forget her..Please Help me..I need all the advice I can get..
Thank you in advance,

I agree with the other poster except that I wouldn't ask her if it was 'you or him' She keeps seeing him then comes back to you and then goes back to him, she's playing both of you. You need to put an end to it. Even if she says it's you and not him, how will you ever know if she isn't now going to see him and ensure you don't find out. Can you honestly say you can trust her again? I am telling you this because it happened to me but I am not a guy, so he was doing it to me. He chose me over her when I confronted him but later I found out that he was still seeing her also. To this day I still regret ever having given him a choice; it only made me miserable that much longer. I wish you luck in whatever you decide to do but again, in my opinion, cut her off now. Just my $.02. Take care. Lucy