Will i ever love like that again?
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Will i ever love like that again?
| Tue, 10-23-2007 - 12:47am |
Oh i loved him so much and i adored him like i have never adored or loved anyone.
| Tue, 10-23-2007 - 12:47am |
Oh i loved him so much and i adored him like i have never adored or loved anyone.
I'm so sorry you are going through this. Lots of hugs to you!!!
For me, practicing No Contact has been vital to healing and moving on. This is my favorite article here, which I revisit repeatedly: http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp,?webtag=iv-rlbreaking&msg=21173.1&x=y
There are some other pieces in the "Resources" section. Grief is tough. Just a few weeks ago I could barely hold my head up, and today I am doing really, really well.
You asked this question many times: "Will i ever love like that again"
I can't see the future, but I can tell you what I believe. I believe there are many opportunities for us to have deep, satisfying love-- not love exactly like the last because each human connection is different, but love that is fantastic and fulfillling in its own way. I used to wonder if I would ever feel love again, and then if I would ever experience deep love, and then if I would ever experience deep love /again/. I have, I did, and I will. I am a believer. And that helps in having another of these experiences, because being open and willing attracts opportunities to us, and us to them. After a month, new love is already drawn to me and trying to find a way in. It is endless.
Hang in there.
Welcome to the board Tina,
I'm sure each and everyone of us has asked that same question at one time or another throughout our life....
Claudia gave you great insight and advice (she's doing so well!).
To love and be loved requires the willingness to be vulnerable to another person, so after a period of healing, you may find you are willing to open yourself to another person and I believe that yes, you will find love again.
relax, take a deep breathe, and focus on this one thought for a minute: