Will it ever end? What is wrong?
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| Sat, 07-24-2004 - 2:57pm |
When we were seeing each other, he seemed really insecure of himself but at the same time cool, calm and collected. We really seemed to hit it off. He ended up being the first person I ever had sex with. Everything was going great till he just stopped calling. Never was I ever possesive or anything, I let him do his thing.
Now when he started calling me again 6 months later we ended up going out, I gave hima second chance. At this time he still never knew about me being in love with him and what my feelings really were for him. When we saw each other again he told me he was not ready for a relationship right now. I told him that I totally understand and said slow in fine, I'm single too. From what we said I thought we agreed on just hanging out now and then. He got weird with me after about a month and I told him how I felt about him cuz I was tired of trying to figure him out, I just let him know how I felt. He did not respond. I went to a few of his friends parties and he seemed really uncomfortable. He seemed so nervous around me but could not seem to not stop looking at me and following me around the whole time. Was really strange. I did not push the issue but we were both single and he would not let any guys he knew get near me. INCLUDING HIS BEST FRIEND. The friend that started calling me after 6 months. He knows we just were friends.
Nwo after about a month of this crap he calls me and pretty much let me know he wants to talk, HANG OUT, WHATEVER. Then did not call again for 2 weeks, so I thought ok one more text message to him and I will just say forget it. I text him, asked him if we were ever going to get together. He wanted to know what I was doing that night but I was busy. So we never got together but about a week after that I told him I would be at a bar and if he wants to get a drink then stop by and see me. He came to that bar but brought a friend. I was pretty upset but made the best out of the situation and just said hi to him and also talked with the girl cuz she seemed uncomfortable. W had a huge fight on the phone about an hour later. He was so mean to me and tried to make me jealous. He told me there are other guys for me and I was like oh now u tell me this? Next day I told him I see how he really is now and for him to know how much I care about him and when he did that . . . I told him I'm moving on. He then became really mad and started saying all this crap that did not make sence. I told him not to call me 6 months from now and said bye.
Now here is the big problem . . .
A guy he knows I like and the guy likes me, he told this guy that I was a whore and all this other stuff. This guy came to me asking me about what James had said. I told him why he said things and we are ok but James is telling everyone of his friends that I am now friends with, all these mean things that are not true. He won't stop and I don't want to confront him about it. He is trying to make people talk about me instead of them talk about him. That's what I think anyways. Why is he doing this? Is he really not over me even though he never showed he was all about me? lol I know he really did like me and got scared but what he is doing is driving me crazy and annoying. What should I do?? I just want him out of my life now, as much as I still like the a**hole I just want him to emotionaly leave me alone. What do you think about this situation? :/
