Women's 1 Flaw

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Registered: 01-28-2005
Women's 1 Flaw
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Mon, 07-24-2006 - 6:47pm

I've been lurking on these boards for the last month while trying to survive a devastating breakup and I CANNOT begin to tell you how much your contributions to these boards have helped me. I'll post my story soon, but I still can't get through a decent, coherent thought without breaking down. Hopefully soon.

I wanted to share something that a friend sent to me with women are going through the self-esteem/self-confidence issues after a breakup. It's a reminder of how special we are and what we have to offer that special someone that will love us the way we deserve to be loved and cherished.
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One Flaw In Women

Women have strengths that amaze men.

They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold happiness,love and joy.

They smile when they want to scream.

They sing when they want to cry.

They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous.

They fight for what they believe in.

They stand up to injustice.

They don't take "no" for an answer when they believe there is a better solution.

They go without so their family can have.

They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.

They love unconditionally.

They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards.

They are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding.

Their hearts break when a friend dies.

They grieve at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.

They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart.

Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.

They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show how much they care about you.

The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning.

They bring joy, hope and love.

They have compassion and ideas.

They give moral support to their family and friends.

Women have vital things to say and everything to give.

HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN,

IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH!!!
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A coward is incapable of exhibiting love;
it is the prerogative of the brave.

Mahatma Gandhi, 1869-1948
Indian Political and Spiritual Leader

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Tue, 07-25-2006 - 9:07pm

Excellent!

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Registered: 06-05-2006
Thu, 08-03-2006 - 8:50am

WHy do you think that this JUST applies to women? I'm a man and can HONESTLY say that it's NOT just a woman issue!!!

Read my posts...

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 08-03-2006 - 12:00pm

goddess_scarlett66...

Pianoguy doesn't want to start an argument with Mahatma Gandhi....but every man who can't exhibit love ISN'T NECESSARY A COWARD!

If a male comes from a home where love wasn't present, how can you expect him to suddenly accept the concept and behave completely different? If a man has been hurt several times by different women...whether they were connected with marriages, relationships or just by friendships...isn't there an element of trust that is no longer present?

For a woman to tell (and convince) any man: "I'm not like your EX" can be a difficult statement for many of us to believe. The 'sting' from a failed relationship is often present...and it takes time for it to dissolve.

Hate to burst your bubble, but self-esteem and self-confidence AREN'T EXCLUSIVE to ONLY women! Men (even though we've been brought up to be 'tough and take ALL disappointments without complaining') have a vulnerable side as well. If a woman assumes otherwise, she's buying into the stereotype...and not considering the man she thinks she wants to be with!

Personally...I think women ARE amazing, lovely (not just in a cosmetic or physical sense) and extraordinarily creative!

However, there are a few ladies I've met up with who STILL believe the male stereotype should apply to ALL MEN, instead of looking at each one of us for the person we happen to be?

If you can't deal with or accept our weaknesses along with our strong points, don't you find it foolish to want to spend the rest of your life by our side?

Pianoguy

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Registered: 04-20-2006
Thu, 08-03-2006 - 4:18pm

Its funny, but when i went thru my breakup earlier this year, it was one of the emails my aunt sent me to remind me of how special i'm as corny as it sounds. Though its hard to beliee when you read it coz of the emotional distraught you may feel it does have a lot of meaning when you think of it.

Hope it helps you feel better at least about you...

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Registered: 06-05-2006
Fri, 08-04-2006 - 8:42am
I think your message is beautiful. Thank you for posting it.