words of wisdom anyone?

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Registered: 11-07-2007
words of wisdom anyone?
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Wed, 11-07-2007 - 1:11pm
i just went through a break up less than a week ago.
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Registered: 06-22-2006
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 2:12pm

Hi mariacm68 and welcome,


It is very confusing when you think things are one way and they're actually quite another.

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Registered: 04-23-2007
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 3:17pm
I too know what is like to be blindsided, The first time we broke up, he just stopped calling but I heard I don't know what I want too and I looked at him and said then you don't want me, but he denied that, saying it wasn't me, he was in love with me, just scared of committment due to his divorce and psycho ex wife, we eventually started talking again, without the committment. I truly beleive he is messed up and when someone isn't ready, they aren't ready, now we don't talk at all and I am 5 months pregnant with his child, whether he will ever get his self together, remains to be seen, I truly hope so for his daughter's sake. My advice to you is to breathe deep, go out alot, find things to do to occupy your time and maybe he will call and you all will work it out, but then maybe he will call one day and realize while he was figuring himself out, you moved on and you will discover you are alot happier
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Registered: 03-28-2006
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 4:39pm

Sandra,


I enjoyed your post.

 

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Registered: 10-10-2007
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 9:18pm

i am sorry about your break-up, but everyone here is going through the same stuff and we are here to support you in this rough time.