would he...

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Registered: 10-09-2006
would he...
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Tue, 02-27-2007 - 12:10am
...email me if he was in a relationship with someone else? He sent me an email a week ago, completely out of the blue after 4 months of NC. It didn't imply anything about getting together. In fact, he said that he was hoping to check out my myspace page so he "could find out what I was up to, without asking," but it is private so I guess he HAD to email me. I haven't responded, and am still on the fence on whether I will. I'm just not ready to read, "things are going great for me and ," but I am honestly curious to see what is going on. I have been keeping myself from emailing him for the past four months. Anyway, I was just wondering if in general, the guy would be emailing me if he had totally moved on?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: krismae2006
Tue, 02-27-2007 - 12:49am

Sure, of course that's a possibility. He might be ready to be buds and just wants to see how you're doing.

Sheri

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Registered: 10-09-2006
In reply to: krismae2006
Tue, 02-27-2007 - 9:01am
I guess I just think it's odd that he would be checking in on me now, if he were occupied with someone else. In the past, I have not emailed old boyfriends, especially if I was dating someone else. We haven't had contact for four months. If he were moving on, why not leave the past in the past?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: krismae2006
Tue, 02-27-2007 - 10:43am

Some people like to remain friendly with their exes but not until they are over the ex. He may have figured enough time has passed that you'd be ok with hearing from him.

But the bottom line is, if you're not completely over him and ready to be in contact, then you should not respond and should consider blocking him for the time being so you don't have to deal with emails.

Sheri

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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: krismae2006
Tue, 02-27-2007 - 11:51am
Hi krismae, He could be involved with someone else.