Wow.. it's over

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Registered: 10-15-2005
Wow.. it's over
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Sat, 10-15-2005 - 3:35pm
After about 30 minutes of watching tv last night, he turns to me and says "we need to sell the house". I thought he lost his job. Then he sat on the couch beside me and said that we can't continue this way. He wants a kid and I don't. We've been through this before and I figured that we'd work through this. But I guess after 6 years of a common law relationship, it's over. See, I have depression and his reasoning is that he doesn't think I'd be able to handle a child in my condition. Whatever. Now I have to go through the bulls**t of selling the house and finding an apartment. The strangest thing is though is that I'm not as broken up about it as I thought I would be. Probably because he told me that he wanted a kid a few months ago so I already went through the crappy feeling. Ugh..
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Registered: 09-28-2005
Sat, 10-15-2005 - 3:39pm
I'm glad to hear that you are being strong and not that heart broken over the split. I guess you had time deal with it before hand. Good for you.